Secrets of a Successful Marriage

Successful Marriage

What will make a marriage work?

Marriage is not as simple as saying “I do” and putting on the ring. It takes two hands to clap and understanding what is respect and balance in the relationship is very important too.

So, what ARE the secrets of a healthy marriage?

Do not let money rule your heart

Many couples divorced over an argument on money. They tend to quarrel on topics like where did this money go, why are you borrowing money from me, why you did not save this much money this month, or this and that about money. They let the money rule their heart to do things when they have to pay for their commitments like house, car or utility bills, etc.

Do not be a control freak

One of the successes of a healthy marriage is to maintain a balance in the relationship. Being overly in control over your partner’s life is as good as taking away the freedom that they ought to have.

Do not show your jealousy too much

Trust is very important for a healthy marriage. The common signs of showing out your jealousy can be from checking your spouse’s email, handphone, or getting emotional when your spouse talks to the opposite sex. If you want to keep a marriage healthy, don’t do this.

Keep your marriage fresh and alive

Spice up your love life with little surprises and certain random stuff will perk up your sex life and make both of you be close together. How about a sexy lingerie?

Have confidence

Have confidence in yourself. Your wife or husband would love to see you in your best form. Women or men always look good when they are confident.

Today, divorce statistics have gone up to more than 50% and that was because many couples failed to understand the true meaning of a healthy marriage. There are times couples will quarrel in a relationship and knowing the right ways to fix your marriage is equally important too. The success of a long-lasting and healthy marriage does not come like this, it requires both of you to work on it.!